They are both deeply spiritual people, so I’ll start with something from the Bible. This is from the apostle Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians (2:9), he said,
“Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor mind conceived of what God has planned for those who love him.” No one knows God’s plan.
Well, no one could have known God’ plan for these two people 60 years ago; No one could have envisioned the rich, wonderful life that would arrive right here, 60 years after they started together.
I also know that each of us has lost dear family and friends before their 80th birthdays, so we can all appreciate that their age alone is a gift. But while God has helped keep both of them safe and alive in our midst, they have also helped to keep their marriage safe and alive. In a world that is sometime careless and dismissive of marriage, my parents have taught me that it is a commitment worth fighting for, even living for – and here they are to prove it.
The 2nd quote is from their “Song.” For those of you who don’t know, the title of their signature, couples’ song is “Always.” My favorite version is by Tony Bennett, and it goes like this:
“I’ll be loving you, always. With a love that’s true, always. When the things you’ve planned, need a helping hand, I will understand, always. Not for just an hour, not for just a day, not for just a year, but always.”
As they’ve grown old together, we can all see the genuine tenderness between them. They have helped each other, they have been there for each other – and for all of us – not for just an hour, or a day, or even 60 years – but for always.
This last quote is from a song by Mark Heard. It’s what I think of most when I look at these two high school sweethearts, and realize the essence of what is most important. The quote goes like this…
“Love is not the only thing – but it’s the best thing
Love is never everything – but it’s the best thing.”
Let’s raise our glasses and toast to two people who have lived well, and have loved well.
To Jerry and Dolores ! "
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